Summer is something I really look forward to during those last two months of school – trying to figure out a few more lunch ideas and driving my kids to all of their end of the year wind-up stuff gets so tedious in May and June. I am always so excited for it to be over. This year, my girls and I had some epic plans for the summer; workouts and beach days, we were going to have lots play-time. While we haven’t done as many workouts as planned – hey, this mama is still working! – we have crossed a lot of things off of the summer-to-do-list. With a flurry of guests visiting from all over Canada, we have also done some things that maybe we wouldn’t have taken time to do on our own. Continue reading
Team apparel is a part of creating that total team-atmosphere, just like any other team. This past year, our studio created team jackets, and have done t-shirts, sweatpants and shorts over the years. Local Surrey-based company Bravo Apparel, does a variety of branded apparel and uniform, and can customize unique jerseys for any type of sports team.
You wouldn’t think it in the traditional sense, but dance truly is what I would consider a team sport. Our dance studio attends competitions as a group, and create a sense of camaraderie like a team. All of the group dance numbers require a team effort. Although it isn’t competing head-to-head like another sport such as football or soccer, it’s just as much of a team, and dancers are athletes with strength and flexibility training weekly. Continue reading
In January, I joined a Facebook Shopping Detox Group with some other women I am connected with via my former direct sales biz. The goal is to be mindful of what we are consuming and change behaviour, and stop spending money on unnecessary things. Of course, I have never felt that I was an over-shopper, or at least not over the last number of years. But the accountability of being in a group, even if they don’t know whether I purchased or not, has given me that small voice in my head, reminding me to be mindful.
Honestly…it has been life-changing.
Out and about with my jewelry, 2009
Since I left my long-time jewelry business and started working freelance, I have learned so much about myself and about what it really means to use social media to work a business. My former jewelry business was direct sales, and therefore, there was always a roadmap of where to go. When working for yourself, you have no one to answer to but yourself: no incentives to hit, no pre-determined marketing and no team to rally. Just you.
Sometimes it gets lonely and a little boring being just you. But it also really helps to figure out who you are, and what your social media presence means to your business. You start making friends because you just want to BE their friend – you aren’t constantly thinking about selling them something or snagging them as a possible recruit. I am not just spraying and praying on social media to attract business, but only posting things that are meaningful to me. And if I do post about selling something, it’s because I really mean it and genuinely want to share it.
I’m certainly no pro at freelancing, far from it. But I have learned a few things from working freelance that has given me a greater perspective on using social media for business and/or direct sales. Separately, not necessarily together. Continue reading
In so many ways, this school year has flown by. As my girls get further into high school, I find that they have even more activities plus their own social schedules, yet they still need as much assistance as they did when they were younger. When everyone is coming and going every week and into the weekend, 6 months can pass by in a flash. Our dance season consisted of 4 competitions and one trip away to Kelowna, and so if felt like the months of March, April and May, which also is our year end recital, had something almost every weekend. Since Isabella will be entering Grade 11 in the Fall, I have come to the realization that she won’t be in high school too much longer – and her time at Essence of Dance will be coming to a close then too. So, I am looking at the next years ahead with so much gratitude. Continue reading
I am not really an outdoorsy-type of girl.
Surprising statement, I know!
I grew up in Saskatchewan, but still somehow, was always more of an urban girl rather than an outdoor girl. It’s only since we have moved to BC that I have enjoyed nature more like White Rock beach and the other things this beautiful province has to offer. I remember reading an interview with celebrity Rose McGowan who was raised travelling Europe in communes with her hippie parents, and she said that she always knew from a young age that she was different then them. She said that at around 10 years old she saw a woman putting on red lipstick and she immediately thought….”My people!” I have always related to that statement, because I think I knew at a very young age that I was that girl too. Continue reading
I saw this image on social media yesterday and realized that sums up exactly how I have been feeling recently:
I Can’t Adult Today!
I have had a plethora of rejections of the past several months – some personal like from my kid that no longer wants my help backstage at dance events, and some professional, like a writing submission rejection (tonnes of those), emails going unanswered and contract job rejections.
In theory, I know I can’t take it personally, but in actuality, I usually do. My sensitive heart is more sensitive when I haven’t had enough sleep, am feeling stressed out or maybe have had too much coffee – yes, I am dabbling in coffee again, despite giving it up a year ago.
The overwhelming feeling is, this Adulting thing really friggin’ sucks! Continue reading